How to give Cum Eating Instructions when you’re on a phone sex call

CEI (Cum Eating Instructions) is a popular sub-category of JOI (Jerk Off Instructions), and as popular as it is on cam and in clips, it is also popular in phone sex calls! Often done with a FemDom twist, Cum Eating Instructions actually work really well on the phone. Although you can’t see your partner and they can’t see you, the same basic advice applies to CEI during phone sex as it does to CEI in clips or cam shows.

Pace Yourself

When you can’t see your partner it can be easy to accidentally start rushing the call a bit. Slow down and pace the call using lots of jerk off instructions. Use the tone of your voice and your specific JOI directions to keep the caller on task and moving at the right pace to get a decent orgasm (and the right pace for a long call!)

Be Descriptive

Because the caller can’t see you, you can’t fall back on silently teasing them with your body. You need to be talking! CEI callers are sometimes talkative, but if they aren’t you need to fill the silence. Use verbal jerk off instructions during the call, and also describe how they will consume their cum for you. Be careful that you’re not falling back on the same words – use jizz, cum, load, spunk, sperm, and other variations of common words to keep your chatter interesting. Describe the experience using all of the 5 senses to heighten their experience.

Solicit Feedback

Without body language to guide you, it can be tough to know if you’re on the right track or how close he is to finishing. If your caller is a quiet one, check in with them from time to time and ask them to tell you when they are getting close to climax. This will also help you adjust your pacing to better match where they’re at!

Don’t Back Down

Once the caller has ejaculated it’s important that you follow through. Sure, some callers will wimp out and hang up once they cum because it’s more about the fantasy for them, but others will expect you to finish the CEI sequence. Be prepared to follow through with your instructions and follow up with questions about the taste and texture and overall experience.

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