Femdom: Where to Find Paying Subs by Empress Mika

Empress Mika

How To Find Paying Subs

A large question I receive on a regular basis is where to find and obtain paying submissive men that will pay for your services as a female Dominatrix.

As an online Domme, there are a lot of places where Dommes and subs gather including:

  • Social Media / Twitter
  • FetLife
  • Personal Website
  • BDSM Forums
  • And more

Many times, I see newer Dommes sign up to these types of sites and are surprised to see that paying subs are not in abundance or even perhaps being overwhelmed by subs trying to pay them. They may have even spoken with a number of subs only to not have been paid for their time.

This is especially true of those Dommes who simply create a Twitter and expect submissives to find their Twitter and endlessly pay them just for existing.

 

Best Places To Find Paying Subs

While the above sites may introduce you to some great subs, in my experience, the vast majority of paying subs you encounter will actually be on the following types of platforms:

I believe this is because the above sites include both paying and un-paying traffic whereas those subs looking to actively pay for their fetish are much more likely to be found on cam, clip, phone and texting sites.

 

Paying Subs Are More Common On Paid Platforms

Of course, this also means you need to be ready to work as a Domaintrix. As much as there is a large fantasy of Dommes relaxing all day and simply saying, “Pay Me!” and money rolls in, in most cases, this fantasy is not the every day reality.

Unfortunately for those actively trying to make a living from Female Domination, there is a huge group of submissives that feel strongly that they shouldn’t and do not want to pay for the services of a female Dominatrix.

This type of non-paying submissive is found in abundance on various websites but it is not as common to find them on paid platforms. This is ideal because you do not want to waste time speaking to this type of submissive anyway.

Therefore, I encourage all of those interested in making as much money as possible from female Domination to be engaged as much as possible with cam, clip, phone and texting sites.

In my opinion and experience, your time is much better spent on these paid platforms than on social media, forums or any other platform that does not directly bring you in income. Do not get lost in an un-paid time-sync.

Best of luck! 🙂

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Empress Mika is a successful online female dominatrix that indulges in FemDom fetishes both in clips as well as live on cam. She owns the ultimate FemDom resource website for both Dommes and subs: DommeSource.com. Empress Mika as well as DommeSource are proud to partner and collaborate with Webcam Startup.

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