2021 Sex Toy Starter Kit

Get the sex toy starter kit at the budget, mid-range, or high-end level

If you’re just starting out – or are ready to upgrade from your first sex toy purchases – you might be getting asked whether or not you have toys. Buying sex toys doesn’t have to be a confusing, stressful, or expensive process. The 3 most-requested toys are a realistic dildo, butt plug, and vibrator, and we’ve shopped around to find you options at a low ($), medium ($$), and high ($$$) price point that will satisfy each desire. It might seem easier or cheaper to order on Amazon, but with so many knock-off toys made of unsafe materials, going directly to a sex toy company is your best bet.

Realistic Dildo

If you buy nothing else, a realistic dildo is the toy to get. Whether you use it for sex acts, JOI, strap-on / femdom, or fetish shows, a realistic dildo will pay for itself easily and quickly (assuming you don’t go for our $$$ option – it might take a little longer!)

$ Lifelike Lover Classic Realistic Dildo 6 Inch $24.99
Lovehoney sells and manufactures good quality, body-safe products for a very reasonable price. Their “Lifelike Lover” line offers affordable realistic dildos in several lengths and color options, and they hold up well to years of heavy use. I still use this one almost every time I cam, and I bought it nearly 6 years ago! I recently bought 2 of their 7 inch Lifelike Lovers in different skin tones to augment my toy collection, and I absolutely love them. All of the Lifelike Lovers have suction cup bases that are perfect for hands-free use or strap-on harnesses.

$$ Tantus Gary O2 Dual Density Dildo $105.00
It’s no secret that I love Tantus Inc. and everything they make, and their realistic dildos are absolutely fantastic. The Gary O2 is a great balance of quality and price point. They use top-notch silicone, so you can boil your toys to make sure they’re truly clean. There are so many options in their realistic line of dildos, but I love the Gary O2 because it gives you the right appearance of hyper-realism in several skin tones while also not being too large for regular use. I have one of their Uncut models, and it truly is huge!

$$$ RealCock 2 Jones $499.00
If you want a dildo that looks so real that it can fool me in clips, you want a RealCock. Priced up to $799, these dildos have a silicone “skin” that slips over an inner form, giving it the look of a real penis. There is a large base, too, making it easier to make it look like a real person on cam and in videos. The Jones is the “budget-friendly” dildo in the RealCock 2 line, but it still offers the same hyper-realism as more expensive models, and it’s a user-friendly size at around 6 inches.

Butt Plug

If you’re not interested in any butt stuff at all, skip this section! On the other hand, if you want to offer some sort of anal play but aren’t ready for full-on anal, a butt plug is a great way to earn more tips. They’re very popular with customers, and can be had for an affordable price. When it comes to anything anal, hygiene is key. Glass or silicone plugs are best, because you can boil them to kill any bacteria that might be clinging on after a regular soap and water wash. I haven’t included any glass plugs here because they tend to have thicker necks, which isn’t the most comfortable for longer wear.

$ Lovehoney Classic Silicone Beginner’s Butt Plug $14.99
There isn’t much to say about this butt plug, honestly. It’s silicone, so it’s easy to thoroughly clean by boiling it in water, and it’s affordable. It’s also smaller, so you don’t have to be “into” anal to use this toy.

$$ Tantus Gazebo $20.00
This is a larger-sized butt plug available in purple or silver to make it cuter. The size is great for using on yourself, and also makes a good prop for femdom shows. Silicone is also easy to clean to keep things hygienic.

$$$ Tantus Neo $32.00
Yes, another Tantus plug! Easy-clean silicone and a forgiving shape make this a great choice, albeit at a slightly higher price point.


If you don’t want to do penetration – or if you’re just looking for another orgasm option – a vibrator is a must. They come in all shapes, sizes, colors, and prices, but the three below represent a good range of options. While a vibrating realistic dildo may seem to kill 2 birds with 1 stone, they can be awkward to use, have poor vibe power, and are difficult to wash. Spend the same amount and get 2 separate toys that are better fit for purpose.

$ Lovehoney Ladyfinger Classic Vibrator 5 Inch $12.99
This toy may not look like much, but she gets the job done! This was my first sex work vibrator, and it lasted 2 years before I dropped it and stepped on it. It’s not too loud, but it can be heard (some guys like “proof” it’s on), and it will satisfy most people. It can also be inserted, which is a nice plus to offer!

$$ Lovehoney Deluxe Rechargeable Mini Massage Wand Vibrator $49.99
If you want most of the power of a wand vibrator without all of the price and size, this mini massage wand will do you a solid. It’s wireless, but instead of batteries it is rechargeable, making it both convenient and portable. It doesn’t pack the full power of a full-sized wand, but it’s got a nice kick that is anything but miniature.

$$$ Doxy Massager Wand $147.00
While we all call it a “Hitachi”, that company no longer even makes the original “neck massager” anymore. Several other companies have stepped into the opening, and Doxy makes the best replacement. Even better than the original “Magic Wand”, the Doxy is a corded wand vibrator that will melt your face off. It’s quite loud, but the noise is proportional to the incredible power it has. I replaced my cheap wand vibrator with this one 3 years ago and I don’t regret it. It’s big and cumbersome but worth every penny and viewers love it.

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