Tips For Dating While A Camgirl By Alice Snow

Alice Snow

Advice For Dating While Being A Camgirl

There are many different reasons to become a webcam model. These range from a simple need of money, to the desire to conquer your own sexuality and own who you are. Whatever the reason, being a camgirl is a great way to accomplish many goals at once and feel damn sexy doing it. I have been camming full-time for a while and it has afforded me a lifestyle I am incredibly happy with. It has helped me plan for the future both financially and mentally. While there are numerous advantages to camming there is one thing that requires a lot of effort. That is dating while a camgirl.

 

Dating While Camming Requires More Thought and Effort

Now while I am currently single and plan to stay that way, I still will go on dates now and again if a potential catches my eye. Dating while a camgirl requires a lot more thought than dating while working a more conventional job. Things such as jealousy, time spent together, and intimacy all become very important subjects for most partners. Far more so than in a ‘conventional’ relationship. While these things may seem simple to navigate, they hold some very interesting complications that might not catch your eye at first, and could compound into greater issues.

 

Jealousy Over Camming Interaction Being “Too Authentic”

Jealousy rears it ugly head at one point or another in almost every relationship. Depending on your partner, it can be a serious issue to contend with, and this can be even worse while being a camgirl. Multiple time throughout several relationships while I have been a modeling online, I have had partners (or even potential partners) take up arms and develop really intense issues of jealousy. Not from the fact my modeling was sexual in nature, but because they felt my time spent with my fans was too authentic.

 

Explaining The Job and Interaction With Customers / Fans

They were concerned about the feelings they perceived I had for my fans. Which is a hard thing to explain after the fact. So I have learned before starting any new relationship, or even just casual dating, to explain my job ahead of time. I have to explain that my fans are dear and important to me and that was something they would have to deal with. This approach has weeded out many potential dates who couldn’t handle it. Jealousy is a very predictable and easy issue to handle. There’s some other issues that are a little harder to predict.

 

Balancing Work With Quality Relationship Time

As a cam model you are expected to almost always be working at some degree. This ranges from maintaining social media, to responding to fan messages, and most importantly of all, being on camera. This becomes an issue, as you’re spending time working when a partner might think you should be spending it with them.

To combat this, I’ve found it’s best to find time where you can log off the computer, put the phone down, and spend some quality time with them. No work, no social media, no fans and nothing but quality time together.

 

Being Viewed As A Sex Object Instead Of A Person

Now the most complicated issue that I have ran into often was one of intimacy. Finding that balance between intense passion, and animalistic moments of intimacy can be hard. Especially if your partner was aware of your camming before you were dating. I have found it hard to keep people I am dating from viewing me as a sex object that is always down for rough intense intimacy when they are exposed to my camming side first. So I often try to get to know them a bit first so they can keep in mind I am still a person and enjoy the calm sensual moments as well.

 

These Might Not Be All The Relationship Issues

Now obviously these aren’t all the issues that may exist in a cam girl’s relationship. These are just a few that have caught my attention as recurring issues over the years. Keep in mind, every partner is different and the biggest way to solve problems is by having open and honest discussion with them about it.

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Alice Snow
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I’m Alice Snow: I am a 22 year old cam girl, clip creator, sugar baby and I freakin’ love my job! I have been in the adult industry since I was 19, and it has been some of the most rewarding experiences of my life. I range from vanilla, to kinky fetish and everything in between. I am currently expanding my video selections and I can’t wait to bring some of my own fetishes to my videos. Follow me on social media to see just what I am up to!

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